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Destroying Speculations As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

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Destroying Speculations As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

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Destroying Speculations As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

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Destroying Speculations As You Stand For Marriage Restoration “For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ” - 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (NASB) Today, we will continue to look at the passage from 2 Corinthians 10 dealing with spiritual warfare. Yesterday we saw how we have been given divine weapons to destroy strongholds; let’s look now at the specific strongholds that Paul discusses. Verse 5 reads: “We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.” I am sure you have heard the last part of this verse before: “Take every thought captive!” While you are standing for marriage restoration, it is crucial to take every thought captive and make sure it is God’s thoughts and not the enemy’s. I can’t overemphasize this point, so let’s look deeper into this verse and get even more specific on this topic of taking thoughts captive and the connection with the previous verse of destroying strongholds. Verse 5 talks about two specific areas that are strongholds that need to be destroyed, speculations and lofty things! They must be eradicated in order for us to take our thoughts captive. It is no coincidence that Paul tells us to destroy a few things and then commands us to take our thoughts captive. I know many standers who try to take captive their restless thoughts about what their spouse is doing and who they are doing it with, but they don’t seem to be able to sustain victory. Why? Because they have not destroyed these two strongholds with the divine power of God explained in verses 4 and 5. Allow me to briefly describe what speculations and lofty things are, and you be the judge whether they are active and hindering your stand or not. Let’s look today at “speculations.” These can be best described as the “what ifs” our mind tells us. You know those speculative thoughts: “What if my spouse serves me divorce papers today?” “What if my spouse starts dating?” “What are my kids going to go through?” “What if I lose the house?” Have you noticed how almost 100% of the “what ifs” are negative and not hopeful? Why is that? They are usually demonically inspired thoughts the scriptures describe as a stronghold in the form of speculations. As you stand for your marriage, you must start recognizing when these negative speculations try to come and become strongholds in your life. No longer allow yourself to ponder these thoughts and meditate on all the lies they bring. You will become hopeless and lose all supernatural joy. Why? Once again, this is the spiritual warfare and weaponry of the enemy. You must use the divine power God has given you and destroy them, execute them, and not allow them to live in your mind for one more second of your stand. You can do this! Today is the day that those speculations torment you no more. Today, they are being arrested and destroyed by the divine power God has given you to use. So get ready for the stronghold of speculations to be demolished in your stand for restoration! Freedom is here!

I Hear the Lord Saying
I HEAR THE LORD SAYING OVER YOU: I Am Quieting The What Ifs And Filling Your Mind With Truth

Prophetic Word

I HEAR THE LORD SAYING OVER YOU: I Am Quieting The What Ifs And Filling Your Mind With Truth

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I HEAR THE LORD SAYING OVER YOU: I Am Quieting The What Ifs And Filling Your Mind With Truth My child, I see the battlefield that has been raging inside your mind. I have watched you wake up in the middle of the night with the what ifs pressing in on your heart, and I have heard every silent question you have been afraid to even say out loud. I am not upset with you for the wrestling. I want you to know that those tormenting thoughts have not been coming from Me. They are speculations the enemy has been whispering to keep you afraid, hopeless, and exhausted in your stand. Today I am inviting you into a different place. A place where every what if gets answered with My promise. A place where every fear gets disarmed by My peace. I am teaching you to take captive every thought and bring it under the obedience of Jesus. The thoughts that exalt themselves above what I have spoken over your marriage must come down. The lofty arguments the enemy has built in your mind must crumble. I am giving you divine power to demolish every one of them. Trust Me with the picture you cannot see clearly yet. I am not finished with your spouse and I am not finished with your covenant. The very thoughts the enemy wanted to use to break your stand are the thoughts I am turning into a place of intimacy with Me. Let Me renew your mind today. Let Me hush the what ifs. Let Me anchor you in My truth. Speculations will not have the final word over you. My Word will. And My Word is restoration.

This Week, Day by Day

Your Daily Stand

MondayMay 25+

Daily Verse

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2 CORINTHIANS 10:4-5 (NASB) FOR THE WEAPONS OF OUR WARFARE ARE NOT OF THE FLESH, BUT DIVINELY POWERFUL FOR THE DESTRUCTION OF FORTRESSES. WE ARE DESTROYING SPECULATIONS AND EVERY LOFTY THING RAISED UP AGAINST THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD, AND WE ARE TAKING EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE TO THE OBEDIENCE OF CHRIST.

Daily Prayer

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HEAVENLY FATHER, I COME BEFORE YOU BURDENED BY SPECULATIONS AND STRONGHOLDS THAT HAVE TAKEN ROOT IN MY MIND REGARDING THE RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE. I SURRENDER THESE THOUGHTS TO YOU NOW. HELP ME TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE AND ALIGN IT WITH THE TRUTH OF YOUR WORD, AND DEMOLISH EVERY STRONGHOLD OF NEGATIVE THINKING OVER MY COVENANT. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT THE WEAPONS OF MY WARFARE ARE DIVINELY POWERFUL FOR THE DESTRUCTION OF EVERY FORTRESS BUILT AGAINST MY MARRIAGE. I AM DESTROYING SPECULATIONS AND EVERY LOFTY THING RAISED UP AGAINST THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD, AND I AM TAKING EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE TO THE OBEDIENCE OF CHRIST. BUT GOD IS DEMOLISHING THE STRONGHOLD OF FEAR OVER MY MIND AND RESTORING MY COVENANT.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT EVERY FORTRESS, EVERY SPECULATION, AND EVERY LOFTY THING THE ENEMY HAS RAISED UP AGAINST THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD IN THEIR MIND IS BEING DEMOLISHED BY DIVINE POWER. I COMMAND THOSE STRONGHOLDS TO COME DOWN IN THE NAME OF JESUS, AND I BLESS MY SPOUSE WITH A RENEWED MIND THAT TURNS BACK TO ME AND TO OUR COVENANT.

TuesdayMay 26+

Daily Verse

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PHILIPPIANS 4:8 (NIV) FINALLY, BROTHERS AND SISTERS, WHATEVER IS TRUE, WHATEVER IS NOBLE, WHATEVER IS RIGHT, WHATEVER IS PURE, WHATEVER IS LOVELY, WHATEVER IS ADMIRABLE, IF ANYTHING IS EXCELLENT OR PRAISEWORTHY, THINK ABOUT SUCH THINGS.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, TRAIN MY MIND TO DWELL ON WHATEVER IS TRUE, NOBLE, RIGHT, PURE, LOVELY, AND ADMIRABLE CONCERNING MY MARRIAGE. SILENCE EVERY VOICE OF FEAR AND EVERY LIE THE ENEMY WHISPERS ABOUT MY COVENANT. LET YOUR TRUTH FILL MY THOUGHTS AND RENEW MY HOPE AS I KEEP STANDING FOR THE FULL RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT MY MIND WILL DWELL ONLY ON WHAT IS TRUE, NOBLE, RIGHT, PURE, LOVELY, ADMIRABLE, EXCELLENT, AND PRAISEWORTHY CONCERNING MY MARRIAGE. I REFUSE TO FEED ON NEGATIVE REPORTS AND WHAT IFS. BUT GOD IS FILLING MY THOUGHTS WITH HIS TRUTH AND ALIGNING MY MIND WITH THE RESTORATION HE HAS ALREADY SPOKEN OVER MY COVENANT.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEIR THOUGHTS ARE BEING FILLED WITH WHAT IS TRUE, NOBLE, RIGHT, PURE, LOVELY, AND ADMIRABLE CONCERNING OUR MARRIAGE. I BLESS EVERY LIE AND ACCUSATION AGAINST ME AND AGAINST OUR COVENANT TO LOSE ITS HOLD ON THEIR MIND, AND I BLESS THEIR HEART TO DWELL ON GOD'S TRUTH ABOUT US.

WednesdayMay 27+

Daily Verse

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ISAIAH 26:3 (NIV) YOU WILL KEEP IN PERFECT PEACE THOSE WHOSE MINDS ARE STEADFAST, BECAUSE THEY TRUST IN YOU.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, KEEP ME IN PERFECT PEACE TODAY AS I FIX MY MIND ON YOU. I REFUSE TO BE CARRIED AWAY BY WHAT IFS AND WORST CASE SCENARIOS. ANCHOR MY THOUGHTS IN YOUR FAITHFULNESS AND LET YOUR PEACE GUARD MY HEART AND MIND AS I TRUST YOU WITH THE RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN. 7

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT GOD IS KEEPING ME IN PERFECT PEACE BECAUSE MY MIND IS STEADFAST ON HIM AS I STAND FOR MY MARRIAGE. SPECULATIONS HAVE NO POWER TO STEAL MY PEACE TODAY. BUT GOD IS ANCHORING MY THOUGHTS IN HIS FAITHFULNESS AND GUARDING MY HEART FROM EVERY TORMENT THE ENEMY HAS TRIED TO SEND.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT GOD IS KEEPING THEIR MIND IN PERFECT PEACE AS THEY BEGIN TO TRUST HIM AGAIN. I BLESS EVERY TORMENT, ANXIETY, AND CONFUSION TO LEAVE THEIR THOUGHTS IN THE NAME OF JESUS, AND I BLESS THEIR HEART WITH STEADFAST PEACE THAT TURNS THEM BACK TOWARD HOME AND TOWARD ME.

ThursdayMay 28+

Daily Verse

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ROMANS 12:2 (NIV) DO NOT CONFORM TO THE PATTERN OF THIS WORLD, BUT BE TRANSFORMED BY THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND. THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TEST AND APPROVE WHAT GOD'S WILL IS, HIS GOOD, PLEASING AND PERFECT WILL.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, DO NOT LET ME CONFORM TO THE PATTERN OF THIS WORLD OR TO THE PREDICTIONS PEOPLE SPEAK OVER MY MARRIAGE. TRANSFORM ME BY THE RENEWING OF MY MIND SO THAT I CLEARLY KNOW YOUR GOOD, PLEASING, AND PERFECT WILL FOR MY COVENANT. LET YOUR TRUTH RETRAIN MY THINKING. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT I WILL NOT CONFORM TO THE PATTERN OF THIS WORLD OR ITS PREDICTIONS OVER MY MARRIAGE. MY MIND IS BEING TRANSFORMED AND RENEWED BY THE TRUTH OF GOD. BUT GOD IS RENEWING MY THINKING, LIFTING HIS GOOD, PLEASING, AND PERFECT WILL OVER MY COVENANT, AND RESTORING WHAT ONLY HE CAN RESTORE.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY WILL NO LONGER CONFORM TO THE PATTERN OF THIS WORLD OR THE VOICES SPEAKING AGAINST OUR MARRIAGE. I BLESS THEIR MIND TO BE TRANSFORMED AND RENEWED BY THE TRUTH OF GOD, AND I BLESS THEIR HEART TO WALK FULLY INTO THE GOOD, PLEASING, AND PERFECT WILL OF GOD FOR OUR COVENANT.

FridayMay 29+

Daily Verse

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ISAIAH 55:8-9 (NIV) "FOR MY THOUGHTS ARE NOT YOUR THOUGHTS, NEITHER ARE YOUR WAYS MY WAYS," DECLARES THE LORD. "AS THE HEAVENS ARE HIGHER THAN THE EARTH, SO ARE MY WAYS HIGHER THAN YOUR WAYS AND MY THOUGHTS THAN YOUR THOUGHTS."

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, YOUR THOUGHTS ARE HIGHER THAN MY THOUGHTS AND YOUR WAYS ARE HIGHER THAN MY WAYS. I LET GO OF TRYING TO FIGURE THIS OUT WITH MY LIMITED UNDERSTANDING AND I TRUST YOU TO MOVE FROM A PLACE HIGHER THAN I CAN SEE. RESTORE MY MARRIAGE ACCORDING TO YOUR HIGHER PURPOSE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT GOD'S THOUGHTS ARE HIGHER THAN MY THOUGHTS AND HIS WAYS ARE HIGHER THAN MY WAYS. I REFUSE TO LIMIT MY MARRIAGE TO WHAT MY FINITE MIND CAN IMAGINE. BUT GOD IS MOVING FROM A HIGHER PLACE THAN THE SITUATION I SEE, AND HE IS RESTORING MY COVENANT IN A WAY ONLY HEAVEN COULD PLAN.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY WILL ENCOUNTER GOD'S THOUGHTS AND GOD'S WAYS OVER THEIR LIFE, WAYS HIGHER THAN ANYTHING THEY HAVE BEEN THINKING. I BLESS EVERY LIMITED PERSPECTIVE AND FALSE NARRATIVE TO FALL AWAY FROM THEM, AND I BLESS THEIR HEART TO SEE OUR MARRIAGE THE WAY HEAVEN SEES IT.

SaturdayMay 30+

Daily Verse

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PSALM 94:19 (NIV) WHEN ANXIETY WAS GREAT WITHIN ME, YOUR CONSOLATION BROUGHT ME JOY.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, WHEN ANXIETY RISES WITHIN ME, LET YOUR CONSOLATION BRING ME JOY. QUIET EVERY SPECULATION THAT HAS BEEN TORMENTING MY HEART AND FILL ME WITH THE COMFORT THAT ONLY YOU CAN GIVE. STRENGTHEN ME WITH SUPERNATURAL JOY AS I KEEP STANDING FOR MY MARRIAGE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT WHEN ANXIETY TRIES TO RISE WITHIN ME, THE CONSOLATION OF GOD BRINGS ME JOY. EVERY SPECULATION THAT TRIED TO TORMENT ME IS BEING SILENCED BY HIS COMFORT. BUT GOD IS FILLING ME WITH SUPERNATURAL JOY AND PEACE AS I KEEP STANDING FOR THE FULL RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT EVERY ANXIETY AND INNER PRESSURE THEY HAVE BEEN CARRYING IS BEING MET WITH THE CONSOLATION OF GOD. I BLESS EVERY RESTLESS THOUGHT TO BE REPLACED WITH THE JOY OF THE LORD, AND I BLESS THEIR HEART TO BE DRAWN BACK TO ME AND BACK INTO THE COVENANT GOD DESIGNED FOR US.

SundayMay 24+

Daily Verse

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ACTS 1:8 (NIV) BUT YOU WILL RECEIVE POWER WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT COMES ON YOU; AND YOU WILL BE MY WITNESSES IN JERUSALEM, AND IN ALL JUDEA AND SAMARIA, AND TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, FILL ME AFRESH WITH YOUR HOLY SPIRIT TODAY. LET HIS POWER FLOW THROUGH MY PRAYER, MY WORSHIP, MY OBEDIENCE, AND MY FAITH AS I STAND FOR MY MARRIAGE. LET THE SAME POWER THAT RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEAD BRING RESURRECTION TO MY COVENANT AND HOME TO MY SPOUSE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IS AT WORK IN ME AS I STAND FOR MY MARRIAGE. I AM NOT STANDING IN MY OWN STRENGTH. BUT GOD IS RELEASING SUPERNATURAL POWER THROUGH MY PRAYER, MY WORSHIP, AND MY OBEDIENCE THAT IS BREAKING EVERY STRONGHOLD AND BRINGING MY SPOUSE HOME TO OUR COVENANT.

Spousal Blessing

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BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IS TOUCHING EVERY PART OF THEIR LIFE. I BLESS THEM WITH A FRESH OUTPOURING OF HIS PRESENCE THAT OVERRIDES EVERY DISTRACTION, EVERY OFFENSE, AND EVERY PLAN OF THE ENEMY, AND WALKS THEM STRAIGHT INTO OUR RESTORED COVENANT.

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